-Find ways to honor a decedent's life
-Share their story
-Embrace your emotions, journal your feelings
-Carve out times to cry
-Do something novel yet cathartic
-Spend time outside and observe nature
-Reach out to a loved one or therapist
My adult life has been punctuated by the devastating loss of my best friends. My sister was a brilliant engineer on track to becoming a NASA astronaut, who tragically died on her morning commute. Years later, as I was living my dream in Europe, my mom had a cardiac arrest and my European life was suddenly uprooted. Their deaths filled me with pain, sorrow, and anger-- and unlike other cultures, mine did not teach me how to cope. I had to learn those skills the hard way, and I’m sharing my lessons learned here in the hopes that it helps one of my readers. Since waves of grief may last indefinitely, do check back to see additional insight and resources I provide here, so we all may have a Good Mourning!
The sky's no limit - feeling inspired from the life of a loved one
Bereaving has no timeline - taking ample time to process the influx of emotions
Finding the write way - journaling brings clarity, closure, and catharsis
Smell (or look at) the roses - interacting with or simply observing nature has proven benefits